hi chi TT..!!
i've read all your respond and you sound like a person would have an answer to my question so i thought of giving it a try... thanx a bunch first!!

i wondered if its wrong if a girl you loved so much and you would never do her wrong in any way!! but if a person loved you so much. why would she stay up every night for all the time we being together til 5-6 in the morning to talk to guys.. not just one. but many.. at first.. i thought its okie. cus i trusted her.. she told me that was her friends and i'm no where near jealousy.. but its turn out to be worst day by days. for months she on the phone. eventually she start going out with guys only...she had tons of girlfriends and they never in the picture.. but guys... i try to confront her and she told me that she a big girl and she know how to take care of her self.. so again i believe her... then 1 month gone by... her attitude complete changing. and we been apart for nearly a year now..she left me without a reason!! and i don't know what it is that i can't move on and on with my life.. wanted to be love again but i can't seem to get her out of my mind.. i hope u can give me some advice cus so many sleepless nights and i lost almost everything for her!!

Chi TT.. could you tell me what it is that my heart can't let go of?? i really need your help.!!
TD

TD,

First of all thanks for asking CTT, it has been quite sometime since my last question.

When girls or guys in love in some ways they have the same mentality that the world seems small or nonexistence. Another word, all they see is each other and no one else.

When you in loved with her all you cares and worries are her actions this means you are truly in love with her. On the other hand, she seemed to be flirtatious and was not honest with you at all. Why would she talk to many other guys when you are her one and only?

To me, she is a very manipulative person and she knows that you would not know her feeling. She indicated that she knows what to do since she is a big girl, sure but in a relationship people just don’t do that. In other word, she is a “player” a term often used for persons like her. She is playing you and playing other guys as well and she does not mean serious with any ones at all.

My word of advice, forget her and start going out with other girls. Don’t sit there and feel sorry for yourself specially a girl like her. Life is short wasting your time like that is not a smart and wise thing to do. People used to say “there are plenty of fish in the sea”, good luck and be happy, TD.

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