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Tinh yeu qua internet co thiet hay khong ?

em co wen voi mot him qua chat.. moi dau em va him chi la goodfrd thoi chi ah.. nhung ke tu khi em bi break up va him cung bi broken heart. thi em va him bat dau mot long- dicstance love do chi.. him o new zealand..  con em thi o mot nuoc cach xa him lam.. em voi him bay gio thuong nhau lam, va him cung seriuos.. chi nghi coi co tinh yeu qua internet hong chi.. nguoi ta noi la co dien moi yeu nguoi tren net do.. zay chac la em dien???? lam on reply cho em, cam on chi nhieu...bye, good luck...

sunisee
 
Dear Sunisee,

Yes Sunisee, co tinh yeu qua internet thiet but it is a different kind of "tinh yeu" compares traditional boy meets girl "flesh met".  People tend to build and/or fantasize a perfect love/lover through the person they meet on the internet and therefore the love and feelings in which the involved parties experience may be just pure virtual reality unfortunately not every day reality.  Em khong co dien, your breaking up a relationship cause em to be a state of grief and thus em tim su an ui tren internet.  You may have well found the comfort and love you're looking for ... but please do keep in mind that this him you met is only human and therefore highly NOT what you imagine him to be.  For safety reasons, please do consult with your parents/love ones if you plan to meet this him.  Let lots of people know especially your family members where and when you meet this person.  Meet in public places with friends and/or relatives only, in your country.  Best wishes to you.

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